Proposition: Sponsor my further studies and I will create long-term solutions for the autistic community. Specifically, I will create (1) a special course that can help “high functioning” adult autistics thrive in mainstream society, and (2) create a non-profit pan-Asian organisation run by autistics that will care for the entire autistic community (including non-speaking autistics who require external support and care).
Why are the existing ways for helping autistics inadequate?
Most of what people do for adult autistics without intellectual disability are classified into three categories:
1) Reducing Burden: Trying to reduce the burden of autistics on their caretakers, such as training them to do domestic duties and pressuring them to take any available job regardless of suitability.
2) Pretending to be Normal: Trying to make the autistics blend in with everyone else, such as intensively rehearsing for job interviews and forcing them into mainstream schools.
3) Exchanging Dreams for Drudgery: Persuading autistics to give up the only meaningful parts of their life in exchange for meaningless work and unfulfilling pursuits
Meanwhile, training approaches for autistics rely on oversimplifying and breaking skills and concepts into atomic parts, imparting a disconnected world that is just as fragmented as the autistic consciousness it is supposed to help.
The assumption is that autistics can rely solely on their minds to work with NeuroTypical society while ignoring their own (irrational) emotions, physical bodies and immaterial soul. The presupposition is that enough rehearsals, studying and preparation will fix the autistic deficiencies.
However, the fundamental issues go deeper than just “attitude” and “social skills”. No amount of learning to read faces, consuming psychiatric medication and going for counselling will actually bridge the autistic consciousness with NeuroTypical society. Much of the efforts by NeuroTypicals result in burned out, emotionally fragile, and unhappy autistics who try to stay in their comfort zones and refuse to confront a nasty and meaningless world.
I propose a new revolutionary approach
It is time to take another approach that addresses autistics as people who have emotional, bodily, and spiritual needs: to trust in the Goodness of Humanity, to perceive the Beauty of the world, to recognise the Meaning in our lives, and to express ourselves with Authenticity.
Instead of living a Mother-Driven Life, we live a Purpose-Driven Life. Instead of escaping from our physical body, we choose to embrace and be fully born into this world. Instead of hiding our weaknesses and evading our responsibilities, we will confront and fix them. Instead of letting others run our lives, we will master the power of expression and creation to live as a complete human being.
A new approach is needed: a 2-year foundational course in NeuroTypical Studies that also incorporates inner work to let autistics discover themselves and resolve their personal issues. After many years of oppression and hurt including from our own family, most of us need to work on ourselves before we can change our behaviours to be effectively employed and integrated into society. It is just not feasible to toss us into the ocean of employment and expect us to become expert swimmers instantly.
The addition knowledge I obtain by learning how NeuroTypicals provide mental health support, life coaching services and art therapy will come in handy for me to create this new course. The course goes beyond behavioural management, social skills training, job coaching, counselling, and achieving material success. The course aims to recover the passion within each autistic individual and find ways to channel it constructively to change the world, while fulfilling their responsibilities and sustaining themselves. This is not about getting a job or even creating a career, this is about living a life as a complete human being in the material world as part of a community.
To help you imagine what is possible, take a look at this video which shares the same spirit as what I envision.
A win-win deal for the autism community
I hereby propose that the autism community crowdfund a scholarship to support me in obtaining suitable internationally recognised qualifications in order to complete my research work and to be respected as an autism and mental health professional:
- Part-time Master’s in Counselling (SGD$38,000)
- [tentative] Part-time Graduate Diploma in Life Coaching (SGD$15,000)
- [tentative] Full-time Master’s in Expressive Arts
(estimated SGD$90,000 including living expenses overseas, but this amount may be raised overseas)
- [tentative] Full-time Anthroposophic Curative Education
(this option is being considered and explored)
In exchange, I will contribute the same amount of training/contact hours of my studies to establish and work for the non-profit autistic-run organisation 7A (Autistic Advocacy Affirmation Acceptance Advancement Actualisation Agency).
I will also create my own proprietary inner work system that can help autistics adapt to NeuroTypical society meaningfully. I may set up my own private business to provide services, and donate my time to 7A to help the needy autistics who cannot afford to pay commercial rates for my services.
Autistic-driven Initiative to help ourselves
7A is a non-partisan organisation that gently educates the public while firmly applying pressure to create change in a constructive manner. This is an organisation that will find ways to provide support for adult autistics, be it to mediate with resentful family members, providing legal support, assisting with mental health challenges and living finanically sustainable lifestyles.
7A will also help work with governments and caregivers to protect the welfare of autistics who lack the means to speak and the capacity to make decisions about their own life. When 7A acquires sufficient financial capacity, it will also provide customised accommodation and sustainable insurance services that the autistic population needs. Most importantly, 7A will initiate and fund research into improving the quality of life of autistics in areas where it is active.
We will be represented in the media whenever autism is mentioned. We will speak out against oppression (such as bullies who target autistics) and deception (such as fraudsters who prey on the autism community). People will understand the deeper issues behind autism advocacy, and light it up both blue (for autism parents) and red (for autistics) during autism awareness day.
This organisation will unite the autism community and become a role model for Southeast Asian autistics to emulate. We will support autistics to become leaders, advocates and professionals. The first few branches will likely operate in Singapore, Hong Kong, mainland China, Taiwan, and perhaps even Canada. This is because I can make use of my connections with the Chinese speaking communities to create the network. Eventually, it will expand worldwide.
The international network will provide many opportunities for autistics to learn and interact with different cultures, and if necessary, to receive international help and support across many countries. For example, Singaporeans may not be able to afford to start a farm for autistics in Singapore, but might be able to partner like-minded people in another country to do so.
The funding will be requested in stages: I will have to obtain the earlier qualification and be accepted into the new course before I raise funds for it. I may revise the plan according to the situation. For example, if the Master’s in Expressive Arts degree becomes available in Singapore in a few year’s time, I will be able to cut my study expenses by more than half.
The Part-time Master’s in Counselling will be my test case to gauge how much support Singaporeans will give to this project. In the event that my fund raising campaign is far from the the amount requested by the end of my studies, I may decide to discontinue this project in Singapore and/or modify the scope of 7A. I will instead volunteer my time (prorated based the amount I raised divided by the study expenses) to serve needy autistics in Singapore. After I have served my bond, I will be free to pursue overseas opportunities.
While crowdfunding is in progress, I may apply for grants or other sources of sponsorship. I may also accept offers from sponsors who wish to make private deals or arrangements with me. When I do get these alternative sources of funds, I will reduce the target amount that I am requesting via crowdfunding accordingly.
In the rather unlikely event that I get more than I requested, the extra funds will go to the next stage of my studies. If I have completed all my studies, those funds will be donated to the 7A non-profit organisation.